what girls love:
1-Touch their waist
-Talk to her
-Share secrets(But be careful coz sharing everything is also risky)
-Give her your jacket
-Kiss her slowly

Are you remembering this?,….If
 its “yes” then go on,..otherwise come again

-Hug her
-Hold her
-Laugh with her
-Invite her somewhere
-Let her be with you when you're with your friends

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-Smile with her
-Take pics with her
-Pull her onto your lap
-When she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
-When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends, makes her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?

-Always hug her and say i love you when you see her
-Kiss her unexpectedly
-Tell her shes beautiful not ***y!
-Tell her the way you feel about her!

...20 you need to show her you mean it too

21-Kiss her on the lips
-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
-Tell her what feels good
-Make her feel loved
-Buy her stuff. small things can still help

we might deny it but we acutally like

and kinda want you to get us things

-Don't lie to her
-Dont cheat on her
-Take her anywhere she wants
-Txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day, and how much you miss her
-Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you

Are you still reading this you better be its important

. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss then).
. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her, remember this next time you are with her36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible


. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams and gudn8
. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
. Take her for long walks at night.
. Always remind her how much you love her.
You will never know when she needs just a little more love, so be optimistic in ur thought and act quickly,…coz handling girls is equal to participating in a race for intelligent one’s,…..I know its funny but true

What Makes Men Fall in Love:

It’s obviously a baffling question for every girl who needs their crush guy to be loved: Is there some specific moment or event that makes a guy suddenly decide “Yes, I think I love her”? Well, the answer isn’t clear -cut, but there are some general principles which suggest that. “Men have certain innate needs from their heart towards love-life that must be met before they truly feel connected to a girl,” says Paul Dobransky, MD, author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love. “When a guy realizes, consciously, that she is ideal on all these levels, that’s when he’ll commit.”

Its a real hassle to men to decide which girl to love when he feels multiple crushes at certain time,..but he manages to love one, the best suit for his life with exempting otherone's by certain reasons according to his mindset.

Ways to Build Happy, Lasting Relationships, Marriage tips, relationship tips:

The fact is that relationships are hard to establish brighter.  Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both persons to make it a success.  Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing.

However, though the odds are not very good for a better relationships, healthy and long lasting relationships definetly possible and even proven by many people. What secrets do they possess?  The answer is that they all work hard at their relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on the “warm and fuzzy” feelings, which everyone knows will fade the day or other.

Think of a thing like choosing a car.  You pick out your favorite model, color, and features that you believe are best for you.  After driving your car for a time being, you realize that perhaps you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather seats would have been better, or with a sunroof on hot sunny days would have been better.  However, it is now too late so you choose to keep your car and make it work.  It is the same for any relationships i.e a relationship between friends or lovers,etc.  Not everything will be perfect in life, and there will be major obstacles to overcome, but ur work is to try for perfection for your partner to satisfy and establish a better relationship. This has to been inner myth for a relationship in both beings to a better relationship.

There are “Hundreds of things you can do to better your relationship”. To help get you headed for a better relationship, I have chosen the following ways to build, strengthen, and enhance your relationship.

Remember, today’s steps taken will add up to big successes for future ahead.

·         Start Over
When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting.  They overlook the little annoying things the other person does.  However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, “You look beautiful,” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt?”

If this sounds in your relationship, first, two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed.  Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place.  Then together, make a commitment to start over.  The truth is, both of you will have to work on this.  It will not automatically be easy but it is possible.  Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with a new feel. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside.  It will take some time so be patient.

·         Schedule Time
spending quality time together is crucial.  This time can be with friends, dining out, attending a sporting event, or cuddling together while watching a favorite movie.  The activity is not what is important but the fact that you are together, doing something that you both enjoy.  People have extremely busy schedules and between work, family, the home, errands, and everything else going on, finding time for your mate can be difficult.  Just as you would schedule a meeting on your calendar, show some courtesy in the relationship by scheduling time with each other.  Once the plan is in place, no backing out unless you have some life and death emergency.


·         The Power of Touch
Loving touch of a parent can quickly pull the child through a health crisis as said generally by doctors.  It’s the same for relationships.  Playing with your mate’s hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you.  When was the last time you walked up to your mate for no reason and without saying a word, affectionately placed a kiss on their neck?  This is not in a sexual way, but an affectionate way.  There is a difference.  The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand.  Do not be surprised if you get a strange look of curiosity the first time!

·         Surprise
If you and your mate have scheduled some time for a Friday night dinner, put together a surprise instead.  For example, if your mate loves professional wrestling, buy some tickets near the front or if they like concerts, purchase the tickets ahead of time, getting the best seats possible.  When Friday night comes around, insist on driving and head toward the location where the event is taking place.  When asked where you are going, simply answer, “I have a surprise for you.  I know you love professional wrestling so I purchased two great seats for tonight’s performance,” or “I know we had planned on going to dinner, but I wanted to surprise you with something special.  I purchased tickets to see one of your favorite groups in concert.”  The idea of you getting the tickets for something THEY like and then keeping it as a special surprise will touch the heart!


·         Needed Space
As important as it is to spend quality time together, it is equally important to give each other time to do something they like.

·         No Debates
If you know that you and your mate have proven differences in opinion on certain subjects, avoid those subjects.  As an example, if you are a Republican and your mate is a Democrat, politics should probably be avoided.  As the two of you identify new topics that could cause a debate session, stop the conversation before it even gets started.

·         Filler Talk
If you are married, especially with children, break out of the habit of talking about nothing.  Many times, families will be sitting around the dinner table and the conversation consists of, “Do you like your carrots?”, or “I wonder what is on TV tonight?”  Instead, change your strategy to include real questions, showing real interest.  Replace the normal, “Did you have a good day at work?” with “Tell me what you did at work today.”  Even if you do not understand everything being said, listen with interest.  It is not that you are so much interested in the work, but your mate’s life.

·         Predictability
If asking couples the factors involved in the demise of their relationship, one of the common responses is that everything in the relationship is so predictable.  When rebuilding a relationship, do not be afraid of letting go of boredom.  If you normally hate the fact that Saturday afternoons consist of your mate sitting for hours watching football, fix some finger sandwiches and something cool to drink and go join them on the couch, or if your mate spends hours in the garden trying to make things look perfect, surprise them with a new flowering plant, and then help to plant it.  When taking a walk with your mate, stop and give them a soft kiss, say, “I love you,” and then keep walking.  Take some chances and do the unexpected.

·         Communicate
When couples are having problems in a relationship, communication is the first thing to stop.  It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad.  When rebuilding relationships, just as communication was the first to stop, it now needs to be the first to start.  This will require that both individuals let down attitude to land.  Healing in the relationship cannot start until you talk.  Make an agreement that you will talk about anything and everything and that you will listen, really listen.  That does not mean that you will agree with everything, which is perfectly fine.  However, if you do not agree, do not yell, rather, the two of you need to calmly discuss the issue and together, work out a solution.  This is hard work but within a very short time, you will both feel much better, individually and as a couple

·         A Night of Passion
Intimacy and passion in relationships is not only important but also healthy.  Couples need to enjoy being together in an intimate way.  When relationships are troubled, the last thing either person wants is to be sexual or passionate with each other.  However, this is a part of the healing and rebuilding of the relationship and although it might be awkward in the beginning, it is crucial.  Make your intimate time together special.  Surprise your mate with a warm bubble bath, lighted candles, soft music, and a bottle of wine, or reserve a nice romantic evening at a local hotel to include a wonderful candlelit dinner,and a beautiful room.

·         Special Greeting
If your mate has to work late and you know he had a bad day, surprise him with a late-night gourmet meal.  When you hear him arrive home, greet him in new, sexy lingerie, a warm kiss, and wonderful hot meal.  After he picks himself up off the floor, he will fall in love with you all over again for this wonderful greeting.  If reversed and the woman is coming home, after giving her a lingering kiss, have her join you in the dining room where the table is set with soft glowing candles and a wonderful meal.  Have an envelope lying by her plate that when opened, she will read, “This certificate is good for one thirty-minute massage after dinner.”  This is how you keep romance alive!

·         Just Because
Give your mate gifts “just because.”  These do not have to be expensive whatsoever.  For example, one woman had a miniature dish collection in her kitchen.  Her husband came home and told her that he had a gift for her.  Holding out her hand, he gently placed in her hand a miniature porcelain cup with her name neatly written in blue ink.  She knew that this cup probably cost no more than $2.00 but the thought that he would take the time to find something she enjoyed, was worth $1 million.  The small gifts packed with thought are far more cherished.

·         Say it with Words
Surprise your mate with little notes found in unexpected places.  If your mate travels for work, place a loving note somewhere in their suitcase.  Perhaps they have a long commute to work.  If so, slip a note saying, “I love you,” in their CD case where you know they will find it.  Another recommendation is sticking a note on the bathroom mirror so this will be the first thing seen in the morning.  Be creative and have some fun with this.

·         Making Love
Intimacy is a huge part of a successful relationship.  Choose a book from the bookstore and try to bring a little excitement into your relationship.  Do not be afraid to experiment and learn new and exciting ways to please each other.  Keeping intimacy alive is healthy and not a bad thing whatsoever!

·         Turn the Computer Off
Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship for most of professionals these days. It might be kinda surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography.  If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you.  In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship.  Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!

·         Control Your Anger
Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments.  For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check.  First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant.  However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back – the damage is done.  Another problem with anger is that the word “divorce” can easily be thrown around.  You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument.  NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing.  If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship.

·         Financial Woes
One of the main reasons other than fidelity that marriages fall apart is due to finances.  When couples are struggling with money problems, tempers flare, frustration builds, drinking may start, and it is an all-around unhealthy situation.  The minute there are any signs of financial difficulties, the two of you need to immediately sit down and figure out a plan on how to deal with the problem.  If needed, go to see a financial consultant or a credit counseling service to help you get back on track.  Do not allow your finances to get out of line or your relationship will certainly suffer.

·         I Forgive You
If something has happened in your relationship causing the trust to waiver, you will have many things to work through.  When your mate has done something that requires you to forgive, you have to forgive, REALLY forgive.  Once you have worked through the issue either together or with professional counseling, and you tell them that you forgive them, you can never hold that over them again.  As an example, if your mate has had an affair and the two of you choose to work it out rather than throw the relationship away, once the problems are resolved and the forgiveness is said, it is done!  This means that you cannot stalk your mate to ensure they are where they said they would be, call or page them throughout the day, constantly ask for reaffirmation of your relationship, it means that you forgive and put the past behind you and then move on in a new, strong, and healthy relationship.  It will not be easy, but you can do it with the right help, attitude, and commitment.

·         Fighting No-No
While having disagreements is normal and sometimes when controlled, healthy for relationships, the place and degree of discussion are important.  Keep your disagreements private.  Being at a party or anywhere around family or friends and breaking into an argument is a great way to break down a relationship.  Not only does it cause embarrassment for your mate, but it also puts a negative light on both of you from the people witnessing the fight.  If you are in public and think you need to argue, at least find a quiet corner or separate room where you can discuss whatever it is bothering you.

·         Strong Family Ties
When in a relationship, not only are you involved with the love of your life, but also the family of your mate.  It is important to build a strong, healthy relationship with the families as well.  Even if you do not see them often, having a good connection with your mate’s family will make life for everyone much better all the way around.

·         Something Handmade
You do not have to be a world-renowned artist to make something homemade and special for the love of your life.  Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your mate that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand

·         Favorite Meal
If your mate has a meal, that is by far the favorite above everything else, go all out and prepare everything to order.  Before they arrive home, put on something nice and a little sexy, light some candles, and have a wonderful surprise waiting.

·         Trip to the Pound
If you and your mate love animals, take a trip to the local animal shelter and pick out a dog or cat that needs a good home.  Adopting an animal that needs a home can be a wonderful way to have something that you both can care for and love together.  This will open up for long walks, taking your new dog on a walk, or hours of playing with a sweet and funny cat.

·         Day at the Movies
Have a movie marathon some rainy or cold Saturday.  Put all your errands and chores on hold and head to your nearest theater.  Hit three or four movies and mix it up.  Buy the theater popcorn and drinks but sneak your own candy in.  This is a great way to spend some fun time together, holding hands or cuddling, while sharing some laughs and maybe tears watching a variety of flicks.


·         A Walk in the Park
Spending quality time together where you can talk and just enjoy each other’s company is critical to a good relationship.  Plan a nice walk in the park to include a comfortable blanket to sit on the grass with while having a good old-fashioned picnic.  Take this time talk, watch other people with their kids, and then just walk around, hand-in-hand.

·         Scavenger Hunt
If things have been a little stressed in your relationship, do something extra special.  Start by creating a trail of rose petals from the door to the kitchen where your mate will find a note to go to the bedroom.  In the bedroom, have another note next to an overnight bag telling them to meet you at a specific hotel restaurant where you know the ambience is cozy and romantic.  The note should direct them to ask for you at the restaurant where you will be waiting to enjoy a fine dinner together.  After dinner and cocktails, gently lead your mate by the hand to a beautiful room that you have reserved for the night.  There on the bed is a robe and a red rose.  This will do more for your relationship than you can imagine.

·         Photo Album
As a wonderful keepsake, create a photo album for your mate.  Include the parents or siblings to come up with some special childhood and teenage pictures.  Include family, friends, special occasions, and times of the two of you together.  Whenever the two of you feel as though you are drifting apart or taking one another for granted, pull out the photo album as a reminder of the incredible person in your life.

·         The Art of Gift Giving
Everyone loves to be given a gift, especially as a surprise or “just because.”  Just remember while giving gifts is a beautiful thing to do for the person you love, there are five key essentials for making your mate know that you are giving just because you love them.  First, put some thought into the gift.  Do not just pick up something at the last minute so you are not empty handed.  Second, make the effort.  Even if you have a busy schedule, be sure to schedule time to shop.  Third, give with the right attitude.  You give because you appreciate and love, not because you want something back.  Fourth, plan what you are going to give.  Find something that is important for your mate and not necessarily to you.  Finally, add the element of surprise into the gift giving.  Using this equation is sure to impress your mate and leave a lasting impression.

·         Take Pride in Yourself
Every relationship goes through down time.  Just because the flame has become a mild flicker, that does not mean you have lost the love for each other, it just means you need to add a little fuel to the fire.  When couples have been together for a long time, the makeup comes off, the nice clothes turn into oversized sweats and tee shirts, and instead of cuddling on the sofa or floor, one sits on the couch and the other in the recliner.  Step back in time and start getting dressed up more on the weekends, invite your mate to sit with you on the couch, dance together in your living room to some music, or take a walk, hand in hand.  It is important not to let yourself go, even when your relationship reaches a “comfortable” state.  By taking pride in yourself means that you take pride in your relationship.

·         Keep in Touch
If you are in a relationship, where your mate serves in the armed forces and is overseas or in another state on duty, away in a foreign country for school, or separated from you for one reason or another, it is important that you keep in touch with each other often.  There will be stress from the separation but by keeping in touch and informing each other of the things each person is dealing with, how they feel, etc., you will not have any break in your communication.  The goal is that when you get back together, you can easily pick up where you left off.  This is a very important time to provide each other with confirmation of your love and validation of your relationship.  While this will require some extra effort on both parts, keep in mind that the separation is not forever.

·         Special Music
Select numerous songs that your mate would enjoy and have them either recorded on a cassette or burned on a CD that can be enjoyed while driving to and from work.  To add a little spice, record a few secret messages every few songs just reminding them how much you love and appreciate them

·         Motivate Each Other
Find a mutual incentive that will motivate both of you to being the best you can be.  Find something that you can both be excited about and then attach some type of reward to the motivation.  If one of you has had a dream of writing a screenplay, make that your goal and take that on together.  The motivation is that when finished, the two of you will take a beautiful, romantic weekend vacation to some exotic place.  The goal could be anything that is important to one person or both and that can be worked toward completion together.  Another example would be if your mate has always dreamed of buying an old model car and restoring it do it together and then take a special trip to the Indy 500 as your reward.  Yet another example might be to restore a home.  Make this a joint project and then as a reward, add a Jacuzzi into your plans.  Use your imagination and enjoy the venture together.

·         Board Games
Pick a night, perhaps on a cold winter night, and just enjoy playing board games.  This can be with just the two of you, or with several close friends.  Bring out the snacks, beverages, and just have some fun.  Laughter and fun are important factors in any relationship, for any age.  Laugh and enjoy having a good time with good honest fun!  You will truly be amazed at what this can do for your relationship

·         Adore your Mate
Beyond telling your mate that you love them, that they are special, and having passion in your relationship, you should adore your mate and what they bring into the relationship.  What that means is to appreciate and love them for the person they are, faults and all.  This is true devotion to your mate and demonstration that you do not take them for granted.

·         No Interference
Do not allow other people to interfere with your relationship.  If family members try to get in the middle of fights or debates, that is definite trouble.  You might have friends with well-meant intentions trying to help you and your mate solve problems.  Although getting another person’s perspective is not a bad thing, make sure it is when you ask for it.  It is very important to keep integrity in your relationship and not allow people to interfere.

·         Be Creative
The words, “I love you,” are always welcomed but why not add some creativity to the way you tell your mate you love them.  Rent a billboard in a location where you know your mate drives every day that clearly says, “I love you,” request that your mate’s radio station play a special song and message on his or her way to work, or if celebrating a special anniversary, have a skywriter fly by a ball stadium, park, or somewhere special where you are spending quality time together outdoors.

·         Make Eye Contact
You may not think this is important, but think back to the first time you saw your now mate.  More than likely, the first interaction was through eye contact.  If you are having dinner during the holidays with a large group of family and friends, glance over to your mate and give them a seductive wink, or if your mate is giving a speech and you are there to offer support, attentively look at them, making directly eye contact and offer a warm reassuring smile.  Eyes can say a lot!

·         Learn More about Your Mate
Either find a good questionnaire or create one that does not dig up the past, but focuses on discovering other qualities about each other.  One happily married couple did this and the wife, who had been standing by her husband for more than 10 years, discovered that he used to be a competitive ice skater.  She had no idea.  Guess what they did on Saturday?

·         Dance
Finding a nice place where the two of you can enjoy a slow dance is a great way to spend time together, holding each other without saying a word.  Keep in mind that to accomplish this, you can stay home and simply move some furniture out of the way, light some candles, and put on your favorite soft music and enjoy some quiet, romantic time together.

·         Respect Privacy
When two people come together in a relationship, each person has their own set of history.  There are yearbooks, maybe love letters from a first love, other objects that may not seem important to one person but to the owner, they have a special meaning.  It is important to respect the privacy of your mate’s “stuff.”  Do not dig through boxes of things owned by your mate out of curiosity.  Instead, allow them to bring those things out if they feel it is necessary.  By helping yourself, you are disrespecting something sacred to your mate, which is not healthy for any relationship.

·         Work and Home Do Not Mingle
How many times have you heard this?  It is true.  While sharing experiences about your day with your mate is perfectly normal, living your work at home is not.  If you have to bring work home, set a specific amount of time it will take you to complete, let your mate know, and then when quitting time comes, quit!  It is important to separate the two parts of your life and keep you work at the job, and when at home, pay attention to your mate and/or family.

·         Encourage Friendships
Men, unlike women, have a more difficult time in developing close friendships with other men.  This is a natural part of life and while they may have some buddies from high school or college that they see on occasion, rarely do they set specific time aside just for friends.  Men and women both need an outlet outside of the relationship where they can just “let their guard down” and have some fun with the same gender.  As your mate makes new friendships, encourage that growth and show 100% support!

·         Confidentiality
Women are usually blessed with the gift of gab, making it easy, sometimes too easy, to talk to other people.  Keep information shared to you by your mate in 100% confidence.  Unless they have told you of a crime they have committed, they are confiding in you and placing full trust in your relationship.  All it takes is one time of spilling private information for the entire relationship to suffer.

By following simple things,…one can definetly establish a cute relationship with their loved one’s….hope u liked it,…if yes then leave a comment of like from Googleplus or Facebook,…plz do it.

Women AND Their Attitude Towards Love:

The article describes about girl’s attitude towards a boy’s love on her in general and how she maintains it ,wat is her intention in words used,and her psychology related to love.
Any girl in world loves truely, only if she likes hime, but not as he is the perfect one for her.In contrast to this happens with boys, so most of the loves with boys crash over in middle as they dont receive wat they expect from girls.

In the meanwhile of love, girl expresses several feelings in the form of fantastic, seductive wordings like “I LIKE UR WAY, I FEEL HUGGING U, I LIKE U VERY MUCH, I WILL FORGET TIME WEN AM WITH U, AND ALL” which makes a boy numb if his experience in love is zero.But along with time a boy manages not to overhope with these kind of wordings from girls which will further allow him to find a right partner.This may not happen with every boy, but with those who like to learn from every experience they come across.

So girls are always fresh in their expression of feelings to whatever may be the count of boys they come across in love and life, its upto boys who understand this things and makeover their mind to receive these feelings.

Finally,the most confused topic in love by boys is, they will become vulnerable in girl’s hands, so called puppets.I suggest boys to not to react for everything the girl claims,but to react in the way their mind suggests, rather than their heart, which bases a strong attraction towards them for girls and makes the relationship stronger.

  Hope u enjoy the facts,am not contrary to the girls because i too love one and learned alot from it.